Women In Ministry - a study of 1 Timothy 2IntroductionIt  is important to me that I am able to look at scriptures and doctrines I  have always accepted one way in a new light, with fresh eyes, and to  always seek the true interpretation, no matter what peer pressure within  the Christian world or political correctness in the culture at large  may dictate.
1 Tim 2:12-14 (NRSV)12 I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent.13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve;14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.It's  a very controversial passage, which brings very strong feelings to the  surface for many people. I grew up around a lot of female Christian  leaders, who were good role models and good leaders, and without whom I  would not have been able to lead worship, and possibly would not have  stayed in the church. I would also like to make a difference between  ‘women in ministry’, and ‘women who teach and have authority within the  church’. These verses focus on teaching and authority, but are not a  blanket prohibition of any form of ministry.
In the past, when it  came to this section of 1 Timothy, I always said that this scripture had  to be taken in context with the broader spectrum of scripture, where it  is clear that Paul had women in positions of authority. However, I  never took the time to really research where these references to women  leaders were, and to properly back-up my stance. I have recently done  this research, and found the following.
There are 3 main female authority figures in the OT, and 3 in the NT.
OT ones are Deborah, Miriam and Huldah.
NT ones are Junias, Priscilla and Phoebe.
I  am not going to go into any depth in study of the OT women, because  that was a different era with different standards. In the New Testament,  we are in a new fulfilment of God's purpose and plan. The same God who  commanded His people in the OT to not eat unclean foods, now declares  all food clean. The same God who allowed King David to have a whole  catalogue of wives, now states a man should have only one wife. Is it  therefore too much of a stretch to think that whereas God made no clear  prohibitions in the OT concerning women in leadership, that now he has  stated that men only should be in leadership of the church? 
It is  very, very difficult to resist the feelings of anger or the projecting  of sexism when it comes to this viewpoint, but we must must must be  willing to approach this scripture with the openness to say 'whatever  God is actually saying here, I want to submit to.'
We  must all resist the media-encouraged attitude which sub-consciously  suggests it is ok to on some level despise someone with a traditional  view of gender roles in a similar way as you would a racist. Someone who  is genuinely seeking after God's truth on this matter, and is willing  to accept whatever seems the accurate translation should not be sniped  at by brothers and sisters, but rather encouraged to pursue, find and  share God's accurate truth. We must make a conscious decision to accept  and value those who interpret these scriptures in either direction, in  the same way that we should value both those who for interpretational  reasons are vegetarian rather than omnivorous, or are catholic rather  than protestant. The ability to agree to disagree on a subject is  essential to Christians co-existing peacefully and in the bigger picture  of harmonious Christian community.
For years now I  have discussed this text with Christians both male and female. The most  popular argument is 'you're taking that scripture out of context - it  was cultural'. Sadly, quite often usually people who say this are just  regurgitating a 'pat-answer', and actually have little to no idea  themselves about the context in which the letter was written.
I  have also had the absolute joy of getting drawn into a discussion on  these topics with people who care so violently about their own point of  view that even the fact that I am researching these questions and not  just immediately aligning myself with their viewpoint is a tremendous  offence to them. These discussions usually stay reasonable and  intellectual for about 15 seconds before the gloves are off, and I  immediately regret trying to have a polite talk with a wild animal. I am  being facetious of course, and I understand that there have been so  many women who have been victims of intolerable sexist abuse, and there  of course is absolutely no justification for abuse of any kind,  especially things like sexism and racism - persecuting someone for the  way they were born, which is evil, plain and simple.
1  Timothy 2 is a very explicit passage, which not only sets out some  black-and-white, clearly stated guidelines, it also references the order  of creation as its justification and reason. The question I have  wrestled with so many times when it comes to this scripture is,
'If this does not apply to everyone, why is the order of creation referenced as its reasoning'?
‘If this is simply a cultural directive, why is something timeless referenced as the reason and motive for it?’ 
Many  people when interpreting this text gloss over the inconvenient verses  13&14, or imply that they are only applicable to that culture  and that time, however the verses that follow directly after 12-14,  state that 'anyone who sets his heart on being an elder desires a noble  task', an elder must 'be above reproach, the husband of but one wife,  temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not  given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a  lover of money.' The vast majority of Christians accept these verses as  they are written, in those simple straightforward terms, so why do we  change the context of the verses which immediately precede them? 
The verses directly preceding the 'women-verses' in 1 Tim 2 state that Paul desires that we should all 
'lift  up holy hands in prayer without anger or disputing'. Also that 'God our  Saviour wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the  truth', and 'there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the  man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all men'. We  all accept these truths as timeless, and applicable to all men, so why  do we contextualise verses 9-15 to the point that they no longer apply,  even though they directly and explicitly reference creation itself as  their reason and anchor?
Variations on the reading of 1 Tim 2'I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man', It  is worth discussing the word 'over' which Paul uses in the passage -  does he mean 'women should not have any authority in the church', or 
'women  should not have ultimate authority in a church - they can occupy  positions of authority as long as they themselves are under a man'?
Paul also uses the word 'I' as in 
'I do not permit a woman...' as opposed to 'God does not permit a woman...', 'I  permit' could possibly be there to point out that it is Paul's personal  belief, but not one that he can say is definitely God's will (in 1 Cor 7  Paul clearly makes a distinction between his own opinions and God's  clear command). However, if Paul meant this to be his own personal  preference, we have to ask why then did he include the reference to Adam  and Eve? 
Also directly before the women section in verse 7 he says 
'And  for this purpose I was appointed a herald and an apostle—I am telling  the truth, I am not lying—and a teacher of the true faith to the  Gentiles', thus establishing that he does actually have the authority to say those things with the backing of God.
Maybe  Paul is saying that according to his reading of the scriptures, he  believes the creation story makes it clear that women should not occupy  positions of teaching or authority, but we see in various places - Rom  16 for example, he greets women in ministry and acknowledges their  positions. Perhaps he holds to his interpretation of Genesis lightly,  acknowledging that there are other schools of thought out there, and  while he himself does not ordain women, perhaps he nevertheless does not  discount those women in ministry who have been ordained by others. With  Junia for example, Paul states that she was in Christ before he was,  and it seems possible that she was not ordained by him, yet he greets  her in a spirit of ‘agreeing to disagree’, and keeping unity between  believers.
The NRSV adds footnotes which state that it  is ambiguous whether 'woman' and 'man' mean simply woman and man, or  wife and husband. Reading the text in this way makes more sense,  especially when taking into account the reference to Adam and Eve -
I permit no wife to teach or to have authority over her husband, she is to remain silent, for Adam was formed first, then Eve.
I’m  sure you will notice that this makes much more sense - especially when  taken in context with verse 15 which states that women will be saved  through childbearing; it seems to follow a theme of family. However   almost all Bible translation experts use ‘man’ and ‘woman’.
Another  school of thought focuses specifically on the phrase 'to teach or to  have authority', and argues that this could be more accurately  translated 'dominate', which again makes a lot of sense when read in  context.
I permit no woman to dominate a man; she is to keep silent. The  Ephesians about whom Paul was writing were most likely influenced by  the worship of Artemis, a female divinity worshipped in Ephesus  (remember the cry 'Artemis of the Ephesians!' chanted for 2 hours in  Acts 19:28). In the book 'Discovering Biblical  Equality', Linda Belleville writes 'In the cult of Artemis the female  was exalted and considered superior to the male', and in chapter 12  'Teaching and Usurping Authority' she goes into great detail and study  of that specific phrase, coming to the conclusion that a correct  rendering is indeed 'dominate'.
Eugene Peterson also agrees with this rendering, as can be seen from The Message Bible's translation of this passage 
'I  don't let women take over and tell the men what to do. They should  study to be quiet and obedient along with everyone else. Adam was made  first, then Eve; woman was deceived first—our pioneer in sin!—with Adam  right on her heels.'But alas, The Message has  the inconvenient reputation for being one of the most inaccurate  translations out there, and fairly useless for serious academic study.  The vast majority of translations do not translate 'teach or have  authority over' as dominate, which indicates to me personally that the  debate is by no means concluded by this reading of the text, and that  the majority of experts lean towards the classic translation.
The Curse Paul refers to the order of creation and the fall of man. Here is an except from the passage in 
Genesis 3:16-17 
‘To  the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing;  with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your  husband, and he will rule over you." To Adam he said, "Because you  listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you,  'You must not eat of it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through  painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life.’Perhaps  it is the curse of Eve that Paul has in mind specifically here - 'your  desire will be for your husband but he will lord it over you'. I have  heard people argue against this school of thought, by saying that Christ  abolished the curses of Adam and Eve when He went to the cross, but  that doesn’t entirely ring true, because men still have to do painful  toil, unfulfilling work just to survive, and women still experience  excruciating pain in childbirth. You can’t say parts of the curse apply  and parts do not, because that cheapens the cross of Christ. I you  accept that in this life the curse of Adam and Eve is lifted in Christ,  then that means the whole curse, not the ones we can exercise some  feeble control over. Are women still experiencing pain in childbirth?  Are men still having to work hard to earn a living? The answer is yes on  both counts.  All in all, Eve really screwed over women, and Adam did  the same to men - and those curses still stand - in full.
Women of The New TestamentPriscillaPriscilla  is always referenced alongside her husband Aquila, both of whom were  tentmakers in Corinth [acts18:3] who travelled with Paul to Ephesus  [acts 18:18]. 
There is an example of a time when they invited  Paul to their home and shared scripture with him, telling him more about  the Christian Way
Acts 18:26 - 
He  began to speak boldly in the synagogue. When Priscilla and Aquila heard  him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God  more adequately.This does show a woman  teaching, but not with the position of teacher. It shows a woman sharing  information with Paul, but not a woman having authority over him. It is  not the teaching of an overseer in a congregational setting, it is  simply normal sharing in a social setting, which clearly is not  prohibited by 1 tim 2 (if it was, that would mean that women could never  pass on any information to a man in normal conversation or day to day  life!!!).
Romans 6:2
  I ask you to receive her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints and  to give her any help she may need from you, for she has been a great  help to many people, including me. Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my fellow  workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me. Not only I but  all the churches of the Gentiles are grateful to them.This  passage clearly shows Priscilla as a saint, a helper, and a fellow  worker in Christ, but nothing sufficiently obvious to offset the raw and  blatant nature of 1 tim 2. It doesn’t clearly show her as an authority  figure, or a teacher.
1 Cor 16:19
  The churches in the province of Asia send you greetings. Aquila and  Priscilla greet you warmly in the Lord, and so does the church that  meets at their house.This passage shows  Priscilla again as a servant and also as a host - she and Aquila allow  their church to meet in their house, but once again this scripture  doesn’t clearly show her as leader or teacher, or present anything  adequately straightforward to offset 1 tim 2. The only other reference  to Priscilla is a greeting from Paul at the end of 2 Timothy.
Acts  18 tells the story of the time when Paul met Priscilla and Aquila, and  there is no clear evidence of Paul's involvement in commissioning them  for ministry. Acts 18:26 shows them explaining the gospel in greater  depth to Apollos, Romans 16:3 describes them as fellow-workers in  Christ, 1 Corinthians 16:19 says that they allow a church to meet in  their house. However, I find it to be something of a stretch to claim  that from these verses either Priscilla or Aquila were anything more  than generous and committed members of the faith, not pastors, apostles,  or anything else.
JuniaJunia  remains the most controversial female mentioned in the New Testament  when it comes to this debate. She is mentioned one time only, as follows
Romans 16:7 
Greet  Andronicus and Junias, my relatives who have been in prison with me.  They are outstanding among the apostles, and they were in Christ before I  was.The big debate centres on 2 questions - is  Junia male or female, and what does 'among' mean? Does it mean they are  working with the apostles, or that they are apostles?
Is Junia (female) actually Junias (male)?’ 
The male equivalent is rendered by the NIV, NASB, The Message, Amplified Bible, and CEV, 
The female version is rendered by the NRSV, NLT, KJV, ESV, NKJV, and NCV. 
The NRSV adds the footnote that it could also be Junias, or even Julia. 
The  clear division of almost 50/50 of these highly respected and widely  used translations simply leaves me with the feeling that we will never  know for sure whether Junia or Junias is the correct version, and  certainly that it is highly irresponsible to base any serious gender  doctrine on a name which is not clearly male or female!!
Junias  could have been female, and could have been an apostle, but I have to  seek the most likely truth, and once again the ambiguity of the Junia  verse is not sufficient to offset the clear and explicit terms of 1 Tim  2.
PhoebePhoebe is mentioned only once, in Romans 16:1, which in the NIV reads
'I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church in Cenchrea.'The NRSV translates this with a very different slant
'I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a deacon of the church at Cenchreae'and  it also adds a footnote offering 'minister' as an alternative to  'deacon'. The ‘deacon’ translation is held by the NRSV, Amplified, NLT,  and CEV ('leader'),
However the 'servant' translation is held by the NIV, NASB, KJV, ESV, NKJV, and NCV ('helper')
The Message describes her as a 'key representative' of the church at Cenchrea.
The  interesting thing about Phoebe is that all of the different  translations could mean leader, but not all of them could mean helper,  making me lean towards accepting that Phoebe was definitely a deacon in  the church, who is clearly endorsed by Paul, as can be seen by reading  Rom 16:1-2 in any translation. Just like Junia and Priscilla, there is  no mention at all of commissioning or ordination by Paul though.
Of  Junia, Priscilla and Phoebe, the only one my conscience allows me to  accept as a leader in the church would be Phoebe, the other two are just  too ambiguously mentioned. Decent scholarship does not allow use of  Junia or Priscilla as evidence and motivation for doctrine; Phoebe  however, seems to be potentially the one valid case of a woman in  Paul-approved leadership in the early church, as mentioned in the New  Testament - and it only takes one to make a valid case.
There  are more questions to take into account at this point. Paul seemingly  clearly approved of Phoebe, yet wrote 1 Tim 2:12, both of which are  God-breathed scripture which as Christians we accept, so what specific  ministry was he restricting to men only? If women can be Deacons, what  is he saying they can’t be?
Deacons and OverseersThere  is a tension between Romans 16:1-2 and 1 Tim 2:12-14. Where is the  middle ground where we find Paul's true meaning? Could it be that a  woman could be a deacon, yet not be involved in teaching and having  authority over men? Interestingly, a possible answer shows itself a few  verses later, in 1 Timothy 3. Verses 1-7 detail the qualifications  needed for bishops (NRSV) or overseers (NIV), and 3:2 says he must be an  apt teacher (NRSV), able to teach (NIV). Verses 8-13 detail the  qualifications needed for deacons, and teaching is not mentioned, so it  is possible to be a deacon, yet not to be a teacher - the two are not  synonymous.
Verse 11 continues the qualifications for  deacons with 'Women likewise must be...'. The NRSV adds in a footnote  alternative translations of the word 'women' as 'Their wives' or 'Women  deacons'. There is no other detailed reference to what deacons do in the  New Testament, therefore this is our main biblical source as to their  role.
The Oxford English Dictionary defines 'deacon' as  - 'historical (in the early church) a minister appointed to administer  charity'. When we read Acts 6:1-7 we see the scripture which is  traditionally viewed as the origins of the ordination of deacons, even  though the word deacon is not used, as from these verses we can see that  the purpose of the deacon's ministry was indeed to administer charity,  not to teach or to be in an authoritative position.
1 Tim 3:8-13 talks through the qualifications of Deacons, both male and female -
'Deacons  likewise must be serious, not double-tongued, not indulging in much  wine, not greedy for money; they must hold fast to the mystery of the  faith with a clear conscience. And let them first be tested; then, if  they prove themselves blameless, let them serve as deacons. Women  likewise must be serious, not slanderers, but temperate, faithful in all  things. Let deacons be married only once, and let them manage their  children and their households well; for those who serve well as deacons  gain a good standing for themselves and great boldness in the faith that  is in Christ Jesus.'You can clearly see the  gender-neutral language Paul uses in this section; there is no ‘he’ or  ‘she’, only ‘they’ . I think Paul makes it clear that this passage is  applicable to men and women, by saying 'Women likewise' sandwiched in  the middle of teaching on Deacons. It surely means women in the context  of being deacons, otherwise it makes no narrative sense to stick a  totally disconnected directive about women in general right in the  middle of an otherwise normal and cohesive flow of teaching.
So,  along with Rom 16:1 (the Phoebe verse) we can see from these 3  references that it is also perfectly valid for women to hold  administrative positions within the church.
Contrast the gender-inclusive language of 1 Tim 3:8-13 to the preceding verses concerning Overseers in the church, 1 Tim 3:1-7.
'The  saying is sure: whoever aspires to the office of bishop desires a noble  task. Now a bishop must be above reproach, married only once,  temperate, sensible, respectable, hospitable, an apt teacher, not a  drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, and not a lover of  money. He must manage his own household well, keeping his children  submissive and respectful in every way— for if someone does not know how  to manage his own household, how can he take care of God's church? He  must not be a recent convert, or he may be puffed up with conceit and  fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well  thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace and the  snare of the devil.'We can see the clearly  implied male gender in these verses, lining up with the statements made  in the verses before them in the 2nd chapter. Paul constantly uses ‘he’,  not ‘they’, again implying that the role of Overseer is male, but the  role of Deacon is not gender-restricted.
Studying these verses without agendaMatthew 19 reads  
"Some  Pharisees came to him, and to test him they asked, "Is it lawful for a  man to divorce his wife for any cause?" He answered, "Have you not read  that the one who made them at the beginning "made them male and female,'  and said, "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and  be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? So they are  no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together,  let no one separate."Here we see Christ  referencing the creation story as the basis and reason for his teaching  against divorce for any reason, and the vast overwhelming majority of  Christians from all major denominations accept this teaching as  universal, and not a limited cultural reference. Why then do we not  apply the same, entirely valid interpretation to 1 Tim 2:12-14 when Paul  references the creation story as his basis and reason for teaching  against women in teaching or authoritative positions in the church? Lets  be brutally honest, it’s because “Women should have all the same  opportunities as men" is a hugely loaded political issue which evokes  very intense emotions and passionate arguments in a huge majority of  women. 
The gender of Junias (or Junia) is debated, and  scholars are far from united on whether the person described as an  apostle is male or female. I would suggest therefore that any kind of  doctrine based on a verse with an uncertain interpretation is unreliable  at best, and actual heresy at worst. When there is nothing plain or  explicit, or where there is plenty of room for doubt I would suggest it  is unwise to legislate based upon these references alone, despite the  massive political and cultural pressure to accept the current  post-modern western mindset concerning gender-ambiguity. If we used the  same loose referencing with other verses in the bible we would swiftly  find ourselves recreating many of the age-old heresies which the much of  the New Testament addresses, and if we allow ourselves to be bullied in  doctrine by the culture which surrounds us, we find ourselves in the  world and of the world.
A Few Objections"What about the women who Jesus sent to tell the disciples that He was risen from the dead?"This  question is a particularly odd one as it doesn't really have any  connection to the scripture in discussion. In 1 Timothy Paul is  blatantly not prohibiting women from ever passing information on to men  in any context. He is prohibiting women from teaching or having  authority over men, in the setting of the church, that is all - from  being overseers. Jesus did not ordain, nor commission the women he sent  from the garden of Gethsemane, he simply told them to pass on the  message to the disciples of what they had seen. This was of course, a  great honour and privilege, but nevertheless it is plain and obvious  that He was not ordaining them as overseers for the church! So forgive  me if I write this question off as irrelevant.
What about the Women who looked after Jesus?Luke 8 states 
"The  twelve were with him, as well as some women who had been cured of evil  spirits and infirmities: Mary, called Magdalene, from whom seven demons  had gone out, and Joanna, the wife of Herod's steward Chuza, and  Susanna, and many others, who provided for them out of their resources."  From this verse we can see that there was no teaching or  authority involved in the ministry of the women with Christ, so this  verse does not contradict 1 Tim 2. They were looking after Jesus and the  disciples, not being church overseers.
There is no longer male nor female - that old chestnutGalatians 3:28 
"There  is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is  no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus"If  you can use this verse to negate 1 Tim 2:12-14, then why can't you use  it to negate the teaching in Romans against homosexuality? If there is  no longer male nor female, what is wrong with cross-dressing? What is  wrong with having a gender-change operation? If there is no longer male  nor female, in the sense that so many of us protestants like to apply it  to 1 Tim 2, then surely it follows that gay marriage is ok. Heck, if  there's no male or female, why aren't there more transsexual pastors  about?
This verse does not neutralize our genders, even  though it is so frequently used out of context as a 'contradiction' to 1  Tim 2. However if you read the entire passage from Gal 3:19-4:7 you can  see clearly that Paul is contrasting the Old Testament with the New,  saying that now all have equal value and access to God through Christ,  regardless of nationality (Jew or Greek) (as opposed to Judaism and the  Law - see Exodus 12:43, Deut 17:15), regardless of free/slave (as  opposed to Judaism and the Law - see Exodus 21:20-21), and regardless of  male/female (as opposed to Judaism and the Law see Deut 25:11-12!).
To  take this verse and apply it so wildly out of context like this is once  again verging on heresy in my opinion, because our gender is one of the  most important and central things about us as individuals, and defines  much of how we should live and act in society, according to the New  Testament, and much of the writings of Paul himself - see 1 Cor 11:14  for how important and real our genders are. This verse is not negating  our individuality, it is teaching that we all now have equal value and  access to God.
I think some people defend the  blanket-interpretation of this verse because of it's importance in the  abolition of the slave-trade; a movement driven by Christians, but with  only a few scriptures to back it up. I'm sorry to say it, but this  scripture is plainly not about the abolition of slavery, nor does it  condone it. It’s primary meaning is that we all have equal access to God  through Christ. 1 Timothy 1:10 however, describes slave-traders as 
'lawless, disobedient, godless, sinful, unholy and profane'.  and this verse is blatantly pro-abolition. There is no need to take  another verse out of context to make a point which is made perfectly  well elsewhere.
If women can't teach, how come they can prophecy?In  1 Corinthians 11 Paul gives directions for the proper way in which  women should pray or prophecy in public, which is perfectly valid. These  verses again do not contradict 1 Tim 2:12-14, because it seems fairly  clear that there is no prerequisite to be an overseer before you can  pray or prophecy in the church.
So does the complimentarian argument balance with the wider view of scripture? I believe that it does. 
In Genesis 2:18 God says 
'It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner'.
I  like this verse a lot because it shows that while the woman has a  different, more supportive role (helper), this does not mean less worth  than the man (partner).
1 Peter 3:7 also highlights the different role of the woman, while again emphasizing the equal worth 
'show  consideration for your wives in your life together, paying honour to  the woman as the weaker sex, since they too are heirs of the gracious  gift of life'Ephesians 5:21-15 makes this point again - different roles, equal worth. 
'Be  subject to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, be subject  to your husbands as you are to the Lord. For the husband is the head of  the wife just as Christ is the head of the church, the body of which he  is the Saviour. Just as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives  ought to be, in everything, to their husbands. Husbands, love your  wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her'In  these verses I can clearly see the broad message of teaching in the New  Testament on this issue. Because of the different roles we were created  for, it is therefore not right to have a woman overseer, which seems to  be directly what Paul says in the surface text of 1 Tim 2:12-14. 
Also,  we see no women in the 12 disciples, no women pastors, and no definite  women apostles in the New Testament. In the Old Testament we see the  pastoral leadership of the Law as overwhelmingly male. Even glancing  over the names of the books is an indication of this principle spread  throughout the entire Bible. People often say that the reason women are  not as prominent in the bible is because of the cultural prejudice of  that time in history, yet surely God would not have been bound by  people's prejudice - sexism does not dictate what God can and cannot do,  and neither does political correctness. If we accept the bible as the  perfect, flawless, inspired Word of God, we must also accept that He has  always chosen to speak scripture through men in an overwhelming  majority.
So what CAN women do?I  very much sympathize with the feminist movement, because historically  in the protestant west, I think we have never actually got it right - it  has been 'women can't do anything', or 'women can do everything', one  extreme to the other, where as I believe the Bible teaches that neither  extreme is actually the right one.
Even at Cliff  College where I am attending, before the women’s-lib movement, it was a  male-only college, which is clearly wrong. Women have every right to  education, women have every right to vote, and to equal human rights  with men. Women have every right to leadership and authority in pretty  much every sphere of life, except over men, within the church. Women can  lead and have authority over other women within the church, and over  children in the church, but not over the whole church, that role is the  only one which is restricted. Women can lead a nation (Judges 4), women  can run their own business (Prov 31), women can pray and prophecy in the  church (1 Cor 11), and women can hold positions of administration  within the church (Rom 16:1). 
Many of these truths  historically have not been applied. I believe that the Bible’s teaching  is actually very pro-female, just look at the above list. I do also  believe that the Bible simply teaches that male and female are different  although equal. It is possible that the bible has been perceived to be  male-dominated because this truth has permeated the entire book. This  does not mean that the Bible is sexist or has been tainted and damaged  by a misogynistic society (as Christians we cannot take this viewpoint  without throwing out the whole book as utterly flawed), it means that it  uniformly teaches that spiritual pastoral leadership of the believers  is male.
ConclusionMy  conclusion on 1 Tim 2:12-14 is that this passage is absolutely NOT  limited to the time and place of it's writing. Verses 13 and 14 make it  abundantly clear that this is a universal principle, applicable to the  Christian church throughout all time, just as Christ's teaching on  divorce is universally applicable. Although I was raised to embrace  female leadership within the church, after much study I have eventually  come to believe that Paul is directly forbidding women from occupying  the post of overseer in the church. I believe women are free to be  deacons (Rom 16:1 - Phoebe), and that this verse does not contradict the  teaching of 1 Timothy, as Deacons seem to have not been teachers, but  administrators of charitable gifts to the poor.
The  (politically incorrect, controversial) truth is that those verses mean  something. For our consciences sakes, and to seek God's blessing on us  as individuals and as the church we must seek to find out the true  meaning of these verses, simply because they do mean something, and  whatever it is, it applies to us, now. I wonder if in the future the  period from the 1960's onwards will be looked back upon as the time of  the feminist heresy? It seems way too much of an eye-rolling coincidence  that the protestant church in general began to flag on this issue right  about the time in history that feminism became a politically charged  topic. Had the feminist revolution never happened in the 60's, I suspect  that the church in general would have continued in the same way that it  had for the 1900 years previously on this issue - by adhering to the  text. I have to wonder if we forfeit some of the blessings we could  otherwise inherit from God because of this. The protestant church in the  western world has been in rapid decline for decades now. Are we losing a  certain blessing and anointing because we are allowing the bared teeth  of political correctness to dictate doctrine to the church? I think it  is highly probable. 
I believe the principle of the  text is not solely a response to a cultural issue in Ephesus, but, as  the text indicates, also an appeal based on the order of creation,  indicating that men and women are - "shock, horror, political  incorrectness" - different. I am a complimentarian, but remain so with  an open mind, and would love to be proved wrong.
Romans  14 teaches about vegetarians within the church. No immediate connection  to women in ministry, you might think, but the principle which is  taught in this scripture is that despite there being two schools of  thought on this issue, we should not judge those who adhere to the  opposite one to ourselves to be sinners who ought to be rejected.  Although there is no explicit link from this chapter to the 'Women in  Ministry' debate, I am using it as inspiration to enable me to approach  my faith family with humility, acceptance and an open mind. I intend to  approach the issue of female overseers in the same respectful spirit as  Paul approached the issues in Rom 14. I will however find it difficult  to have respect for anyone who holds their views on this subject with  ferocity, yet has not studied the text and context in any depth. I do  not think badly of those excellent scholars who have come to the  egalitarian point of view on this text through their own highly  intensive studies, just as I hope they would not show disrespect to me  for my own earnestly researched, and conscience-driven stance.
Everyone  who is a seriously committed Christian expects a certain amount of  unpopularity from those outside the church for their earnest beliefs,  however receiving hostility from brothers and sisters for a belief you  hold earnestly with good reason and good conscience is a bitter pill  indeed. I would love to be proved otherwise in my belief, I have been  blessed more times than I can count by women in Christian leadership,  but I have to make the scriptures my ultimate and final authority, and  having researched to the best of my ability on this matter I have to  come to the conclusion that any claim that there are scriptures which  contradict 1 Tim 2 is tenuous at best, and I have to accept what seems  apparent from the surface text as straightforward (although very  unpopular) doctrine. I accept the text to mean what it says.
For further developments in my study of 1 Timothy, click hereI  would value any comments you have, or further information which I have  left out on this subject [unless you decide to vomit hate anonymously  into my inbox - I have a special button set aside for all such messages]  :)